Everyone who knows my works knows that for years now I have
maintained that every dysfunctional relationship, whether it be between
individuals or groups, can be analyzed
and understood by applying the concept of disconnection. Without a lengthy introduction, it’s going to
be difficult to apply this concept to the political ascendency of Donald Trump,
but I have to try. I have to beg the
reader’s indulgence. I’m going to have
to go “round the barn” to fully explicate what I’m talking about.
Disconnection, in the
case of individuals is both result AND cause of a dishonest relationship with
self. Disconnected people lie to
themselves, cover up and/or ignore all their faults. Disconnected people spend all their energy
defending the lies they tell themselves.
The man who beats his wife blames his actions on her: she made me do it. The more egregious the transgression, the greater the rationale to
justify it. Fear is at the core of
their being, because there is no truth there. Disconnection creates total self absorption,
once again whether we are discussing an individual or a society. The self image must be maintained at all
costs. Both disconnected societies and
individuals rewrite their histories to eliminate any transgressions they may have
committed.
This country was built on two of the most flagrant sins in
the history of humanity: enslavement of people
of African descent and the genocide of Indians.
Poor working whites have been cruelly exploited as well, although not to
the same extent. How can America look
itself in the mirror and admit to the evil it has committed? From the unbelievably deplorable dungeons in which captured Africans were kept,
to the Middle Passage where up to
100 million Africans died due to conditions too horrendous to fathom, to the
countless rapes of women, and men! They justified their sexual barbarism by
projecting all of their depravity onto the victims. Black men were seen as either sexual brutes
from whom all white women must be saved or asexual eunuchs, thus called “boy.” With a
world view that perceived women as either whores or virgins, the white women,
clearly played the role of pristine virgin and the black woman was relegated to
that role which would justify their rape.
They took away names and language; branded fellow human beings as less
than human, animals. Dehumanized, degraded and humiliated beyond
description. The more
egregious the transgression, the greater the rationale to justify it.
Every treaty with the Indians was broken. George
Armstrong Custer became a hero by massacring
peaceful Indians, including women and children. Andrew Jackson is honored on the twenty dollar
bill despite, or perhaps because of, his Trail of Tears.
Many Americans, mostly white but not exclusively so, derive
their sense of worth from being citizens of “the greatest country on Earth-The
land of the Free and the home of the Brave.”
Every American institution, from the educational to the judicial, to the
media has as its fundamental goal, the maintenance of the concept of America as
a place of fairness and honor.
Blacks never received their forty acres and a mule. To this day there abound apologists for the
institution of slavery (many of them on Fox News) who maintain that blacks were
treated well and well fed. We should
thank them, they say, because they gave us Jesus. Reparations
remain a pipe dream because there has never been a clean break from the
mentality that justified slavery. As I
write, Indians are protesting
the construction of a pipeline that may poison their water and profane their
sacred grounds.
One of the best examples of a mind becoming warped from hatred and rationalizing that hatred comes from the film “Mississippi Burning.” The Gene Hackman character relates that his father killed a black man’s mule because, “If you can’t be better than a nigger, who can you be better than?” The idea is ridiculous, yet central to much of American history and culture. What if that character had been taught that his main goal in life was to be the best father, the best man, the best person, he could be? How much misery could have been avoided if people like him had been taught that their only competition in life was with their own potential? That you don’t need to feel that you are better than someone else to feel good about yourself.
Had that character been competing against his
on potential, he probably would have begun to develop his cerebral cortex,
the higher functioning, thinking part
of the brain. He would have been thinking about how to become a better
person. Instead his entire being was
caught up in a competition to feel
better. His cerebral activity- higher brain
functions- thinking atrophied. He got dumber. His primary brain function came from his hypothalamus. He acted purely out of emotion, which in his
case, was primarily fear and anger, the roots of which he lacked the cerebral
activity to understand. This character
represents, not only the extent to which disconnection stunts growth, but also
how it induces regression. People and societies go backward.
People like this
character are easily manipulated and controlled. They vote against their own best interest. They
are angry because they have no safety net.
They have no safety net because they vote against any form of safety
net, in the fear that a person of color will benefit. Those
in power have a vested interest in keeping these people ignorant and angry. They help America stay in denial.
Still, America had a chance for redemption in the late
seventies. We had just lost a war
(Vietnam) to people of color. The embassy in Iran had been taken over, and
despite out phenomenal military might, we appeared to be helpless to do
anything about it. Black folks had been challenging White supremacy. The (white) American psyche had sunk low
enough that redemption might have been possible. Who could step forward and save white America
from this threat to their psychological well being?
In rode Ronald Reagan on his mighty steed and he assured all
(white folks) that all was really right with the world. The politicians lost the war, not the
military. Good white people could keep
the economy strong were it not for the lazy, shiftless, welfare cheating black
folks. Disconnected always look for someone to blame! Reagan
became known as the Teflon President because no matter how many gaffs he committed,
(and there were many) nothing stuck to him.
At the time I wrote that that he “rescued America’s psyche at the cost
of her soul.”
Some thirty years later, angry Americans have elected the
most unqualified candidate in history: Donald
Trump. True, he lost the popular
vote, but any substantial vote given to a man who ran such an utterly
preposterous campaign is a national embarrassment. Trump,
lacking a mighty steed, descended upon an escalator, to “take back (their)
Country,” and “make America Great Again.”
Cerebral activity is completely suspended. Fed up
with a Washington that doesn’t work because of the obstructionist Republicans,
they vote Republican! They want to feel good again. They can feel
good about voting stupidly because enough of them vote stupidly to justify
it. Hate feels good. Blame everyone who doesn’t look like
you. Trump tells outrageous lies. He wonders aloud as to why we should have
nuclear weapons if we aren’t going to use them. The very thought that, as master of the
Universe, they can blow up the world is invigorating. Testosterone
flows- even in the “Trump can grab my pussy” women. Change will come to this old house even if it
means blowing it up; at least there will be change! Ted
Nugent has a platform! Nasty details
can be ignored. Superlatives abound: “The
BEST, BIGGEST, WINNINGEST” not unlike a Korean dictator. If we blow up the world it’s only because we had
every damn right to!
The scary part, Bill, is that the disconnection that got us here is unlikely to abate, so I suppose we're doomed to spend eight years in Trumpland.
ReplyDeleteAbsolutely insightful commentary. Particularly the fact that Trump's appeal is a limbic level primate artifact. No reason or policy preference is necessary for something that takes place outside of the reasoning brain. Simply excellent.
ReplyDeleteUnfortunately, I'm afraid that as the Right Wing propaganda machinery continues to play on the emotional needs of the intellectually vacuous, the situation can only get worse. With Trump in office, we'll see what a true nadir looks like.
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